What People Are Saying
I’ve worked with other therapists before, but nothing prepared me for the transformation I experienced with Tom. In less than a year, I’ve made a complete 180. I’ve had real breakthroughs, the kind I thought only happened in movies.
Tom creates a space that’s safe, grounded, and quietly powerful. He listens deeply, challenges gently, and helps you see what you’ve been missing – not just in your patterns, but in your potential. Working with him has been one of the most meaningful decisions I’ve ever made.​
A few months ago I suffered a traumatic break up with my long-term boyfriend. We were going to spend the rest of our lives together. I was devastated. Every negative emotion a person could feel, I was feeling – rage, anger, sadness, jealousy, anxiety, hopelessness, grief, loss, etc. I was emotionally and physically heartbroken.
Tom listened with patience, a calm and soothing voice, and words of wisdom and encouragement. He supported me more than I had ever been supported in my life. Fast forward three months later. I am on the road to recovery.
I owe Tom months of my life. Without him being there for me, listening, supporting and cheering me on, I would not be as far along as I am in my healing. I’d still be angry and sad and not fully functioning. While I still have progress to make, I’m back to having a functioning life. I have Tom to thank for that.​
For years, I was stuck, trapped between the life I want to live and the baggage and shame associated with growing up in a dysfunctional family. As a professional in a leadership position, Tom's approach and background helped me be at ease with digging into some of the hardest questions I have had to answer for myself.
Tom helped me to adopt the mantra, "Live life. Don't go back." Through our sessions, I worked to embody the feelings that were stuck in my head that I was never allowed to express. I worked through traumatic experiences from my youth and teenage years that reemerged annually around the anniversary of significant events, such as the death of an absentee father. Tom pushed me to explore the repressed emotions that had never been expressed, some of them from wounds more than 35 years old.
I'm grateful for Tom’s caring support as I uncovered ground I had not explored for decades. After months of fairly intense work, I see a more positive outlook and strive daily to live life more fully. My most important relationships are significantly improved. Working with Tom has been a life-changing experience, helping me set goals and priorities for how I want to live. I wish I would have started on this journey decades ago.