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The Journey Through
Family Estrangement

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Family estrangement rarely follows a straight path. It is often marked by shock, confusion, grief, self-examination, difficult decisions, and, eventually, some measure of acceptance.

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The chapters below explore different aspects of that journey. While many readers will find it helpful to read them in order, each chapter can also stand on its own.

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Fragmented Relationships

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An introduction to the unique nature of family estrangement and the challenges that accompany a loss that remains unresolved.

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The Break

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Examining the events and circumstances that lead to estrangement and the emotional impact of a relationship suddenly changing course.

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Silent Treatment

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Exploring the experience of unanswered calls, ignored messages, and prolonged silence, along with the uncertainty that often follows.

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The Feelings

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Understanding the wide range of emotions that accompany estrangement, including sadness, anger, confusion, fear, guilt, hope, and relief.

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Judgment Day

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Considering how family members, friends, and society often respond to estrangement and the judgments that can emerge from those responses.

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Parental Duties

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Reflecting on the responsibilities parents carry and how those responsibilities can feel challenged when relationships become fractured.

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Parental Guilt

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Exploring regret, self criticism, second guessing, and the difficult process of evaluating the past with honesty and compassion – including compassion for yourself.

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Accepting

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Learning to acknowledge reality as it exists today, even when it differs from the future that was once imagined.

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Deciding

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Considering what comes next and determining how to move forward while balancing hope, boundaries, and personal wellbeing.

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If You Agree

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Thoughts for situations in which the reasons for estrangement feel understandable, justified, or consistent with your own assessment of the relationship.

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If You Don't Agree

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Reflections for situations in which the estrangement feels unfair, confusing, disproportionate, or difficult to understand.

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If You Don't Know

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Navigating the uncertainty that comes from having little information about why the estrangement occurred or what the future may hold.

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Rebuilding

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Healing from estrangement means building a life that is big enough to include daily joy and pleasure while accepting the loss and grief that resurface at the holidays, the milestones, and the moments you wish things were different.

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Professional Help?

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If you came here looking for guidance through a family estrangement, depression, or anxiety, I hope this site provides clarity.

Please complete the "Send Us A Message" form if you would like to work with a Wisconsin-based therapist who specializes in these issues. I will respond to your inquiry as soon as possible.

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